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Name : Martin Nyland B.A., M. Div., EFT - III
City: Woodstock
State : Ontario
Country : Canada
   
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Why can I not find peace with myself? Why can I not love myself? Why can I not forgive myself? Some reflections....
Without a doubt, among the core issues facing each and every client I meet is the inability to love oneself completely. Currently in our world and in our society, the effort to find and maintain personal wellness is becoming more challenging. With stress from our physical environment, our social environment, broken families, past hurts and given a host of other factors, finding true wellness seems so elusive to so many.
Yet deep below the layers of emotional and physical unwellness lies, in my opinion, the greatest ‘struggle’ of all ..... the war within. It is my firm and clear belief, after years of working to help people find wellness, that true and deep healing on all levels is significantly affected by what degree one loves oneself. Inner self-rejection is an insidious and powerful poison that inhibits true and deep healing. On the other hand, the more someone embraces oneself completely, the more he/she will enjoy profound levels of peace, integration and healing. In other words, the deepest, most rewarding and profound healing is felt when one truly embraces oneself with full acceptance and love.

But why in the world is this struggle so difficult to resolve? Why do we find it so easy to judge ourselves, to find ourselves at fault for everything, to 'beat ourselves up'? Inside many of us is a merciless judge who is always on the job....nitpicking and relentless, but always on the job. And despite the fact that many people feel they fail at so much, the one thing they excel at is self-incrimination! And so....many walk around each day, interacting with their environment and with others, all the while breathing in a type of toxic gas......a gas of unworthiness......a sense that 'there is something wrong with me'. One becomes, at the same time, both the aggressor and the victim, both living and acting within. This prison of loneliness
is, perhaps, one of the deepest forms (if not THE deepest form) of suffering.

We are not born with a sense of low self-esteem, self-incrimination and self 'beating up'. Along the path of life's journey, negative foundational stories impact us in such a way that we begin to develop a belief system that incorporates the faulty notion that 'something is wrong with me'. It could be a story of shame or a story of neglect. It could be an experience of rejection, bullying or abuse. Time and time again I have witnessed in my clients the impact that even one simple event from years ago has been very impacting.

Whatever the cause, Emotional Freedom Techniques is a superb technique that works rapidly and effectively on various fronts. I have helped many many clients, employing EFT to quickly address (release) unresolved emotions and to help re-frame the original experience. It is truly an amazing and heart-warming experience for me to help facilitate this healing process! It is even more amazing for the client to begin to quickly experience the utter joy, peace and comfort of 'loving the self' within, perhaps for the first time they can remember.EFT can help you shift so that you can begin to believe and live with the belief that 'there is nothing wrong with you' only the perception you have learned about yourself.

Love, peace, forgiveness, gratitude....all possible!!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
   
 
 
 
   
 
 
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